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Author: Marcus Delacroix

Marcus Delacroix keeps a written log of every habit he starts, keeps, breaks and drops. He is not a doctor and does not give health advice: the pieces here are about the mechanics of repetition on one ordinary person, tested before they are written down.

The Workout Habit I Killed by Making It Too Important - what actually sticks

The Workout Habit I Killed by Making It Too Important

The habit that failed hardest was the one I cared about most. The habit that survived was one I barely thought was…

What Actually Sticks Week 6
The Smallest Version I Was Embarrassed to Admit To - starting small

The Smallest Version I Was Embarrassed to Admit To

The habit that finally stuck was so small I did not tell anyone about it for months. Here is why that embarrassment…

Starting Small Week 5
When a Streak Number Made Me Feel Worse, Not Better - tracking & numbers

When a Streak Number Made Me Feel Worse, Not Better

A running streak count is supposed to be motivating. For a few months it did the opposite for me, and I want…

Tracking & Numbers Week 5
Less Is More, But Only After You Actually Test It - dropping a habit

Less Is More, But Only After You Actually Test It

I like the idea of less is more. What I do not like is people using it as an excuse to quit…

Dropping a Habit Week 4
The Never Miss Twice Rule: Does It Hold Up? - when you miss a day

The Never Miss Twice Rule: Does It Hold Up?

Never miss twice in a row is repeated everywhere as the fix for broken habits. I used it for four months to…

When You Miss a Day Week 3
The 'Never Miss Twice' and 'No Exceptions' Rules, Tested Against a Real Week - habit myths

The ‘Never Miss Twice’ and ‘No Exceptions’ Rules, Tested Against a Real Week

Rigid rules like never skipping a habit no matter what are supposed to build discipline, but a bad week showed me they…

Habit Myths Week 3
Two Habits That Looked Identical on Paper and Were Not - what actually sticks

Two Habits That Looked Identical on Paper and Were Not

On any list of tips, these two habits would score the same. Same time commitment, same simplicity, same clear cue. One is…

What Actually Sticks Week 2
The Season Change That Quietly Ends Most of My Habits Every Year - habits that travel

The Season Change That Quietly Ends Most of My Habits Every Year

Every fall, without meaning to, I let a whole set of habits fall apart. It took me several years to notice the…

Habits That Travel Week 1
My Kitchen Counter Was Deciding What I Ate Before I Did - environment over willpower

My Kitchen Counter Was Deciding What I Ate Before I Did

I thought I had no self-control around snacks. It turned out the chips were just at eye level and the fruit was…

Environment Over Willpower Week 1